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Discovering infidelity — or any significant betrayal of trust — is one of the most devastating experiences a relationship can face. The pain is real, the confusion is profound, and the question of whether the relationship can survive feels impossible to answer in the immediate aftermath.
Dr. Sally Hackman, PhD, MFT, offers compassionate, expert couples counseling for infidelity and trust repair in Santa Monica and Los Angeles. She has helped many couples navigate this devastating experience — some choosing to rebuild the relationship, others choosing to part with more understanding and less ongoing pain.

Whether you choose to rebuild or separate, therapy helps both partners understand what happened — in the relationship and in each of themselves — so that you can move forward with clarity rather than unresolved pain.

A safe, neutral space where both partners — the one who was betrayed and the one who betrayed — are held with compassion and honesty.

Dr. Hackman helps couples explore the conditions that led to the breach, the impact it has had, and the work required to rebuild — or to end the relationship with as much integrity and mutual respect as possible.
Recovery from infidelity is possible — but it requires honesty, commitment, and skilled guidance. Dr. Hackman brings both the clinical expertise and the human warmth needed to hold this difficult work.
Yes — many couples not only survive infidelity but build a stronger relationship on the other side. It requires honesty, sustained commitment, and skilled therapeutic support. It is not easy, but it is possible.
No. Many couples come to therapy precisely because they don't know yet. Dr. Hackman creates space for that uncertainty and helps both partners explore what they feel and need before making life-altering decisions.