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Major life transitions stress relationships — even when both partners are committed and the change is a positive one. A new baby, a career shift, a move, a health challenge, children leaving home, retirement — each of these changes the structure of daily life and, with it, the relationship.
Dr. Sally Hackman, PhD, MFT, helps couples in Santa Monica and Los Angeles navigate these transitions as a team — maintaining connection and mutual support through the inevitable uncertainty and adjustment that change brings.

Build the communication skills and mutual understanding that allow couples to support each other through change rather than becoming sources of additional stress for one another.

Couples sessions offer dedicated space to process the emotional weight of major transitions — without those conversations getting absorbed by the practical demands of the change itself.

Dr. Hackman helps couples understand how each partner experiences the transition differently — and use that understanding to move through it with more empathy, patience, and connection.
Transitions that are navigated well can bring couples closer together. The couples who come through major life changes with their relationship strengthened are usually the ones who sought support before the strain became serious.
Because transitions — even welcome ones — involve loss, adjustment, and uncertainty. The identity shifts and role changes that come with major transitions can surface old patterns and unmet needs in both partners.
Having a baby, launching children to college, retirement, relocation, career change, a health diagnosis, and loss of a parent are among the most common. Dr. Hackman works with couples through all of these.